Three Simple Ways
to Motivate Yourself
When you feel unmotivated, changing
your mind-set can seem as strenuous as hauling yourself
out of a sticky pit of mud. Not only do you feel unmotivated,
you feel unmotivated about trying to GET motivated!
Fortunately, your
mind is susceptible to persuasion – if you use
the right stimulators.
Here are 3 simple ways to motivate yourself:
Remind yourself why your goal
is important.
Sometimes it’s easy to lose your
motivation if the end result doesn’t seem as important
as it did when you first set the goal. Most of us are
fired up with enthusiasm when we first set our goals,
but over time that fire dies down.
To rekindle the flames of motivation,
revisit your goal in full detail! If you kept notes
about what you wanted to achieve, re-read them now.
If not, take a trip down memory lane. What will your
goal do for you? Why was it once important to you? Is
it still important to you? Important enough to override
the temptation to avoid working on it?
What about this goal is EXCITING TO
YOU?!
If this activity isn’t sufficient
to get you moving again, then maybe it’s time
to re-evaluate your priorities and set some NEW goals
that get your blood pumping again.
Give yourself a push.
Very often, it’s the start that
is the most difficult part! Even when you don’t
feel like working on something, pushing yourself to
get started can often shake off the last vestiges of
resistance and put you on the right track again.
I like to play a little trick on myself:
when I really don’t feel like working on something,
I’ll tell myself that I have to put in at least
15 minutes of time on it. I promise myself that if,
after 15 minutes have passed I still don’t want
to keep working on it, I can stop. This almost always
works for me. Once I get involved in what I’m
doing I have no trouble keeping up the momentum.
Whatever you have to do to “trick”
yourself into getting started, do it. Once you’re
rolling along, you probably won’t want to stop.
Also, recognize the key word here -
resistance. Resistance is an internal feeling that opposes
getting into action. Put your attention on the feeling,
bring the feeling of opposition to the surface, take
a deep breath and notice the feeling dissolve. Keep
doing this until the resistance is minimal - or gone.
Set a compromise.
If all else fails, try bargaining with
yourself with rewards. Promise yourself that you can
spend the rest of the evening watching whatever you
want on television if you first work on your goals for
an hour or two. Or promise to buy yourself a new outfit
if you stick to your workout plan each day this week.
There are two important things to keep
in mind with this technique.
First, keep your promises realistic.
Don’t promise yourself the moon to try to motivate
yourself, because somewhere deep inside you’ll
know you are lying to yourself. Second, be sure to honor
the promises you make to yourself! If you get into the
habit of making promises you don’t keep, your
mind will become ever more resistant to compromise.
No matter which method of motivation
works best for you, the 3 suggestions above have one
thing in common: a decision to take action. You can
play all the mind games you want, but if you’re
not willing to move out of inertia and get moving, a
motivated mind-set won’t help a bit.
I could share a dozen more techniques
(at least) - but I'll give you my secret as a bonus.
It's ALL About State of Mind
You can coerce, bribe, release, compromise,
motivate - even punish yourself increase the pain for
'not doing' - but it all comes down to state of mind
and feelings. If you're in the right state of mind,
then things flow. You know what I mean - it's all about
being "in the zone".
The difference between the times when
you're 'in the zone' and when you're stuck in neutral
banging your head against a brick wall comes down to
brainwave state and feelings.
You can do something about both by using
a program like our Laser Focus audio. By simply listening
while working you tune your brainwaves into that frequency
you experience when you're locked on the target, totally
focused on your objective and able overcome the feelings
of resistance that keep you from doing what you SAY
you want to do.
We offer a free trial demo that you
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